daily lessons, john, woman, womens self defense, off duty, chicago, illinois, usa, police, multiple angles, argument, female, officer, outside house, comes outside, ill kill you, grabs her, mama bear, threat, threaten, robbery, woman warrior, tries to steal gun, by the hair, surrender, grapple, ground, standing, drops him, guts and glory, good guy wins, verbal commands, de-escalate, leveraging arm, sympathetic squeeze, negligent discharge