My wife and I were gaming through some scenarios and we stumbled across something we'd never covered before: What happens if I'm grappling, likely to lose, and she can't get a clear shot with her pistol?
I told her: OC us both. I will be prepared and may be able to fight through it, the perp might not and that might actually give me a small advantage. Or we might be able to disengage.
"But you're driving," I said.
She laughed and said she'd rather be OC'd than raped or stabbed so I have permission to do the same if I can't see a better tactical choice.
"I may hate you for six hours, but I'll forgive you."
I love my wife.